Recognition 辨别
When Joseph saw that his brothers’ hearts were humble, and when he heard them confess their sins, he knew it was safe to reveal his identity to them. Had he done it earlier, they would not have been ready for the blessings he had for them; and had he waited longer, the men might have been in total despair. Our Lord knows just how to work in our lives to bring us to submission. Joseph could have fed them and their father without going through this lengthy procedure, but it would only have further ruined their character.
当约瑟看到兄弟们的心确实已谦卑下来，又听到他们为自己的罪忏悔时，他知道向兄弟透露自己身份的时机已到了。如果早一点，兄弟们或许还未做好接受祝福的准备；但如果再延迟，兄弟们可能已经完全绝望了。我们的主知道要如何在我们的心里动工，叫我们顺服。约瑟大可无需经过这漫长的过程照顾自己的兄弟和父亲，但这只会进一步阻碍他们品格的培养。
Reconciliation 和好
Joseph said, “Please come near to me” (v. 4). He had forgiven them, but they were still afraid. In fact, they would still be afraid seventeen years later (50:15–21). In Jesus Christ, we have been reconciled to God, and we need not fear judgment (Rom. 8:1; 2 Cor. 5:18; Col. 1:20). God wants us to draw near to Him (Heb. 10:19–25; James 4:8).
当约瑟说:“请你们近前来”（4节），他已经原谅了兄弟们，但他们仍觉害怕。事实上，十七年后他们仍然感到害怕（50:15-21）。在耶稣基督里，我们已经与神和好，我们无需害怕审判（罗8:1；林后5:18；西1:20）。神的确要我们亲近祂（来10:19-25；雅4:8）。
Reassurance 保证
Joseph explained to them that God had sent him before them to preserve the nation so that Israel could be a blessing to all the earth (12:1–3). God’s providential purpose did not minimize their sins or negate their responsibility (Acts 2:23; 3:13–18), but it did help to ease their fear and sorrow. Joseph further reassured them by giving them rich gifts and promising to care for the whole family. The gifts he sent home helped to give Jacob the assurance he needed that Joseph indeed was alive.
约瑟向他们解释神差遣他在他们面前来保守国家，使以色列能成为全地的祝福（12:1-3）。神的主权与旨意并不能成为减轻他们的罪与责任的借口（徒2:23；3:13-18），但它确实有助于缓解他们的恐惧和悲伤。约瑟还借着送丰厚的礼物使他们心安，并且承诺要照顾整个家族。他所送回家的礼物让雅各确实知道约瑟还活着。
Joseph knew his brothers, so he admonished them: “Don’t be angry with yourselves!” (v. 5), and “Don ’t quarrel on the journey!” (v. 24). We quickly lose the blessing when we fail to accept Christ’s forgiveness and then love one another. (See 1 John 4:7ff.)
约瑟了解他的兄弟，所以他告诫他们：“不要因为把我卖到这里自忧自恨！”（5节）和“你们不要在路上相争！”（24节）。当我们不接受基督的宽恕而开始彼此相爱时，便会很快地失去祝福（约一4:7）。
Praying the Scripture 用经文祷告
- The simple statement “I am Joseph” exploded like a bomb in their ears and brought terror to their hearts. They were speechless. Every mouth was dropped as they stood guilty before their judge (Rom. 3:19). Yes, Joseph’s brothers were guilty. Yes, they were responsible for Joseph’s sufferings, but God used them to accomplish His divine purposes. The story of Joseph encourages us to recognize the sovereignty of God in the affairs of life and to trust His promises no matter how dark the day may be. “Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the LORD that will stand.” (Prov 19:21) Dear Lord, help me to trust You no matter what happens because you are a sovereign, loving, gracious and wise God.
一句简单的话：“我是约瑟”，如雷震耳，使约瑟的兄弟惊慌。他们无话可说。站在罪的面前受审判，他们百口莫辩（罗3:19）。是的，约瑟的兄弟的确有罪。是的，约瑟的苦难是他们的错，但神使用它来完成自己神圣的目的。约瑟的故事鼓励我们：无论夜有多黑，我们要意识到神在我们生活中的主权，并信靠祂的应许。“人心多有计谋；惟有耶和华的筹算才能立定。”（箴19:21）亲爱的主，请帮助我在任何情况下都要信靠您，因为您是一位有主权，有爱，有恩典和满有智慧的神。
- Since Joseph could see his brothers’ mixed responses of fear and bewilderment, he encouraged them with words that came from a loving and forgiving heart. Joseph even urged them not to be angry with themselves (v. 5) and don’t quarrel on the road (v24). What a loving and tender heart of Joseph! Dear Lord, help me to be like Joseph. Even he suffered years of toil and pains he still can forgive because he sees God in the situation. Help me to be forgiving, loving and gracious like our Lord Jesus Christ.
约瑟从兄弟们身上看到恐惧和困惑交杂的反应，因此他以一个充满爱和宽恕的心来鼓励他们。约瑟甚至敦促他们“不要因为把我卖到这里自忧自恨！”（5节），也 “不要在路上相争！”（24节）约瑟的心是如此充满着爱和温柔啊！亲爱的主，助我能像约瑟一样，即使遭受了多年的辛劳和痛苦，仍然可以原谅自己的弟兄，因为他以您的眼光看待一切。请助我做个宽容、亲切、有爱心的人，就像我们的主耶稣基督一样。
